"Anytime we refuse to take responsibility for ourselves,
we are opting to play victim."
Lynne Forrest

Center for Relationship Abuse
http://www.stoprelationshipabuse.org/

Recognizing & Coping with Narcissistic Abuse
http://www.helium.com/items/556543-narcissism-personality-disorder-unknown

Disenfranchised Grief - Grief with No Closure by Aubrey Hammack
http://www.authorsden.com/visit/viewarticle.asp?AuthorID=10045&id=7242

You Think You're So Special?
http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/manipulator/special.shtml

Abusive Controlling Relationships
http://www.rickross.com/groups/abusive.html

Just When You Thought It Was Safe to put up the Christmas Tree by Rev. Renee Pittelli
http://www.luke173ministries.org/templates/System/details.asp?id=39548&PID=466836

You Are a Target, Not a Victim
http://www.youareatarget.com/

Excellent Validation/Advice
http://www.luke173ministries.org/templates/System/default.asp?id=39548

Discerning the Loving Heart
http://ezinearticles.com/?Discerning-The-Loving-Heart&id=22094

Victim to Survivor to Thriver
http://www.cbwhit.com/Victim-to-survivor.htm

How to End a Relationship with a Sociopath
http://www.homepages.ihug.com.au/~arc24/lc47.html

Traumatic Bonding Checklist
http://www.womansavers.com/relationship-articles.asp?a=127

Learned Helplessness
http://groups.msn.com/AtTheEndOfTheSky/general.msnw?action=get_message&mview=0&ID_Message=63&LastModified=4675654283297489781

Predators Hunt the Wounded
http://net-burst.net/hope/survivor.htm

Fantastic Articles
http://www.womansavers.com/articles-for-women/70.html

Tears and Healing
Our Journey to Light After an Abusive Relationship by Richard
http://tearsandhealing.com/

You are not the crazy one
http://www.youarenotcrazy.com/

Cheating Spouse? Overcoming Triangulation in Marriage by Reginald Humphies PhD and Kathleen Eagan, MS
http://www.detoxifyingrelationships.com/

The Process of Victimization
http://www.cassiopaea.com/cassiopaea/
psychopaths_in_sheeps_clothing.htm

The Secret Reason Why Women Are Attracted To Jerks, Players and Just Plain Dangerously Wrong Guys
http://www.takebackyourheart.com/

10 Hooks that Keep you in Boundary-Less Relationships
http://www.coping.org/relations/boundar/alertb.htm

Are you Dating a Loser? Questions answered by Psychologist Dr. Joseph M. Carver
http://counsellingresource.com/features/archives/2006/applied/relationship-losers/

Love and Stockholm Syndrome: The Mystery of Loving an Abuser and other articles byJoseph Carver, PhD
http://www.drjoecarver.com/3/miscellaneous2.htm

Personality Traits in Victims by Marion Trent & Dr. John McCormick
http://www.sociopathicstyle.com/traits/victims.htm

Face the Issue - Narrated by Halle Berry, Jennifer Lopez and others.
http://www.facetheissue.com/index.html

Echo No Longer; The Recovery Process of the Partner of the Person Suffering from a Narcissistically Impaired Personality. Mary Ann Borg Cunen
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/narcissisticabuse/message/1484
http://groups.msn.com/NARCISSISTIC
PERSONALITYDISORDER/page.msnw

Addictive Relationships
http://www.potsdam.edu/content_text.php?contentID=F90696CEC7FEFBFD786924915886CD99

But He said he loved me, a Woman's Guide to Emotional Abuse 
http://www.geocities.com/andifekete/

Test Your Relationship - Healthy vs. Unhealthy Relationships
http://www.cityofknoxville.org/kpd/dvu_test.asp

WHY DO WE CARRY A TORCH FOR SO LONG WHEN SOMEONE HAS BROKEN UP WITH US?
http://www.abandonment.net/faq.html#a4

Emotional Abuse Resource Site
http://abuse101.com/

Not to People Like Us - Hidden Abuse in Upscale Marriages
http://www.nottopeoplelikeus.com/

Dr. Irene's website:
http://drirene.com/verbalabuse.htm

Memmy's Jubilee Java - Abuse and Recovery - check out her pages & links!!
http://www.geocities.com/memcch/

Toxic Love by Robert Burney M.A.
http://www.joy2meu.com/Toxiclove.htm

Wearing Her Down - Understanding and Responding To Emotional Abuse
http://www.womanabuseprevention.com/html/
wearing_her_down.html

Minimal Effective Response (healing and finding closure) by Dr. Phil
http://drphil.com/articles/article/218/

Emotional Abuse
http://www.lilaclane.com/relationships/emotional-abuse/

What is Abuse - Recognizing it, Stopping it
http://samvak.tripod.com/abuse.html

Growing Beyond - Emotional Abuse Articles (good links here)
http://www.webheights.net/Growingbeyond
EmotionalAbuse/articles.htm

Help! I Still Love my Abuser
http://www.drirene.com/still_love_abuser.htm

Emotional Abuse Recovery
http://www.emotionalabuserecoverynow.com/twywtb.htm

Emotional Abuse Site
http://www.firelily.com/support/recovery/index.html

Abuse Sanctuary
http://abusesanctuary.blogspot.com/

Emotional Blackmail
http://www.angelfire.com/vt/rcwn/Pagefifteen.html

Verbal Abuse Sites
http://members.tripod.com/~DeafDeb/verbal.html

When Words are Used as Weapons by kathy Bosch
http://ianrpubs.unl.edu/family/ec469.htm

Definition of Verbal Abuse
http://www.thisisawar.com/AbuseEmotional.htm